PhD in Sexology and Psychosexual Counseling. For More Info WhatsApp- 9604715783/9359863878. Paraphilic love maps – when lust is attached to fantasies and practices that are socially forbidden, disapproved, ridiculed, or penalized. According to Money, it can result from a desire to be displaced from an ordinary love map's "vandalized" area following abuse. Alternatively, Money suggests that a paraphilic love map could arise from a non-sexual childhood experience that induced genital arousal in the child.