Master in Sexology and Psychosexual Counseling. For More Info WhatsApp- 9604715783/9359863878.  Anorgasmia Inability to reach orgasm in females may be due to: 1. Premature ejaculation or dyspareunia. Graded self-stimulation techniques  2. Natural vaginal secretions –lubrication from secretions from the vaginal wall is equivalent to male erection, and penetration should be attempted only when this is present. The use of an external lubricant (jelly) is helpful.